Am I Gay Quiz: Reflect on Your Romantic Feelings

1. Have you ever kissed someone of the same gender?

No, I haven't.

One time only, and that was a dare.

Definitely, and it was great.

I haven’t yet, but I want to try.

2. How do you feel about discussing LGBTQ+ topics with friends or family?

I’m open and willing to share my thoughts and experiences.

I’m curious but prefer to listen rather than speak.

I’m cautious about discussing it; I don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable.

I would love to talk about it and learn from others.

3. If a close family member came out to you, how would you respond?

I would support them unconditionally and let them know I’m there for them.

I would need some time to process, but I’d ultimately support them.

I might feel uncomfortable but would try to understand their perspective.

It wouldn’t bother me at all; love is love!

4. How important is physical attraction to you in a relationship?

Very important; it plays a huge role in my attraction.

Somewhat important, but personality matters more

Not very important; I value emotional connections over physical ones.

I’m still figuring that out.

5. When you think about your future, who do you envision sharing it with?

A partner of the opposite gender

A partner of the same gender

I envision being open to anyone, regardless of gender.

I haven't thought much about it yet.

6. How would you describe your ideal romantic partner?

Someone who understands me and shares my interests

A person with a great sense of humor and charm.

Someone who challenges me and helps me grow

I don't have a specific type; I just go with the flow.

7. What do you appreciate the most in people from the opposite gender?

Friendship and personality

Their smile, looks and personality.

Their looks and personality.

Everything about them.

8. Would you be comfortable if one of your friends of the same gender flirts with you at college?

I will be happy, and it will be a lot of fun.

I don’t know yet.

It would be an awkward situation for me.

I will probably flirt back.

9. How do you feel about attending gay events or gatherings?

I feel excited and comfortable attending them.

I'm curious, but haven't attended any yet.

I don't want to attend such events because I am not interested.

I would be open to trying it out.

10. Did you ever (or want to) wear clothes of someone from the opposite gender?

Yes, always!

No, never!

Rarely, but when I do, it looks great on me.

Never, but I think it would be cool.

11. Right now, what would you consider yourself?

Straight

Gay

Bisexual

Bi-curious

12. What would be your reaction if your best friend revealed to you that they are gay?

Wow! I would ask him out.

I will support his choice, and be happy for him. I would try to link him up with my other gay friends.

I don’t mind. I would ask him about about his experiences because I am curious.

Get excited and support them because he finally found himself.

13. Have you ever attended a gay party?

Yes! I love those parties.

No, I haven't.

I have not attended yet, but would love to someday.

I will definitely attend one if I get a chance.

14. Have you ever seen an attractive person of the same gender and felt attracted to them?

Yes, several times!

No, never.

Only sometimes

Maybe

15. Do you find people of the same gender attractive?

Yes, I often crush on them.

Yes, but not in a romantic way.

Yes, I do find them attractive.

Maybe, I don't pay attention to physical attributes much.

16. Someone who is not your type asks you out. What do you do?

You are not interested. So, you don't talk to them, and you don't lead them on or send any mixed signals!

Tell them you are not interested.

I would give that person a shot!

There will be someone who’s my type out there interested in me.

17. You believe that people from the opposite gender are never interested in you. What do you do?

I don't like them anyway. I would prefer someone from the same gender.

Move on and keep trying. Someone will be interested in me someday!

It doesn't bother me that much... I think I’m gay!?

Expand my horizons, and look for someone from the same gender too.

18. Would you ever try dating a person even if they are from the same gender just because of their awesome personality?

No, I would probably just be friends. I prefer dating people from the opposite gender only.

Definitely, I actively seek a potential partner from the same gender.

I would definitely give it a shot!

I would probably try dating.

19. You are currently dating someone of the opposite gender, and you discover that there is someone of the same gender who has strong feelings for you. You:

Continue dating people from the opposite gender because that's what you want.

OMG, someone from the same gender liked me. I am excited!

I would never go out with people of the opposite gender in the first place.

Try dating that person and see where you and this person can go.

20. Were you ever curious about dating someone from the same gender?

Yeah! Seized the opportunity!

I was just curious!

No!

No, but I wanted to!

Am I Gay Quiz: A Safe and Honest Way To Explore Yourself