If Your Boyfriend Doesn't Call, Do You Worry?

1. If your boyfriend is 'blunt' do you assume he's angry, bored of your company, or cannot be bothered with you, thus cause an arguement with him?

Yes, if he can't be arsed to speak to me then it proves he'd rather be somewhere else.

Occasionally, if I feel like it.

It depends what mood I'm in, sometimes I can accept his tired and other times I panic he's losing interest.

Nah, he's obviously got other things on his mind.

Why would I assume that?

ALWAYS. When he's not happy to see me let alone socialise with me I fly off the handle.

2. If you don't hear from your boyfriend after a whole day, do you feel like you NEED to know what he's been doing and who he's been with?

No, we don't see eachother that often anyway.

Yes - for all I know he could be breaking my trust.

Sometimes, but only when I'm doing nothing myself so have time to worry.

Yeah, but only because I worry he's been having a better time than me.

Nah.. I'm not THAT clingy.

3. Do you find yourself lost when he chooses to spend time with other people than you?

Yes, why wouldn't he want to spend every second with me?

Mmm.. it crosses my mind.

NO, I enjoy us having our own separate leisure time. It means when we see eachother it's great!

4. Do you need constant reassuring about how he feels?

I like it when he tells me how he feels, but I don't need to hear it every second of the day,

If he doesn't tell me how he feels I think he's bored of me.

Nah, actions speak louder than words - right?

Yeah, without this the intimacy goes - which leads to arguements.

5. How long have you been with your boyfriend?

1 - 5 months

6 - 10 months

11 - 16 months

2 years +

6. Do you miss the 'honeymoon' stages of the relationship, and try get them back by being constantly affectionate?

Yes - I miss us missing eachother ALL the time.

Yes, the moment when we could be content sitting in silence together.

No, dwelling on the past only leads to a future of depression. MOVE WITH IT!

I miss him thinking I was the best person ever..

Nah, we're still in those stages!

Yes and no.. I miss them when I think about it but love how things are at the moment.

7. Do you get jealous when he spends time with other people?

HELL YES.

No...he needs his own space

Only if it's a girl!

8. Has your boyfriend entered the 'comfortable' stage.. where he no longer makes an effort for you, but does when he goes out.. and knows YOU'RE more into him now?

Yes he does, and that's what makes me feel insecure. He no longer makes an effort and the 'tables have 'turned'.

What are you talking about?

He makes an effort for me and his mates.

Yes he's been in that stage for a while. I hate it.

9. Have you fallen into a routine of seeing him just because it's what you normally do on those particular days?

Uhuh

No, we see eachother when we fancy it!