Is He Losing Interest In You?

1. How often do you guys have a heart-to-heart conversation with each other?

Almost every day

We used to earlier, but not anymore.

Whenever we feel sad or depressed.

Almost never

2. Have you started arguing a lot with each other these days?

Yeah, we argue a lot nowadays.

We hardly ever talk nowadays, so there are very few arguments.

We don't argue at all!

Only sometimes when one of us is not in a good mood

3. How's the physical intimacy between you two?

It's the same as before.

My boyfriend doesn't seem interested in physical intimacy anymore.

Our physical love life is getting hotter these days!

He avoids initiating any intimate contact with me these days.

4. Does he spend time with you as often as he used to?

Yeah

Not really. He avoids meeting me these days.

He pretends that he's very busy and cancels my plans every time.

We have started spending more time together.

5. Does he seem to be less interested in your life?

Yeah, he doesn't seem to be as interested as he was before.

Not really. He's the same as before.

He avoids me and shows no interest in my ambitions anymore.

He shows a lot more interest in me these days!

6. Does he respond to your texts/calls?

Of course, he does!

Well, not anymore.

He takes a lot of time to reply and shows very little interest in talking or chatting.

Yes, he responds immediately.

7. Does he seem to cancel or procrastinate your plans a lot these days?

Yes, he always cancels my plans!

He procrastinates my plans a lot these days.

Not really

He always shows up to my plans.

8. Do you find it difficult to understand his intentions and plans?

Yeah, since he's changed a lot, it is becoming difficult to understand his intentions.

Sometimes I feel like that.

No, I'm very well able to understand him.

I don't observe any such change.

9. Does he act defensive when you talk to him about the changes in his behavior?

Yeah, he grows furious.

He takes everything I say as an accusation.

No, he listens to me patiently.

He comforts me that he'll change.

10. Answer honestly- Do you feel that your boyfriend is actually losing interest in you?

Yeah, I strongly believe that.

My gut feeling tells me that he's losing interest in me.

No, I don't think so.

I don't know. I feel very confused.

11. When you two argue or disagree, how does he handle it?

He communicates and tries to resolve the issue.

He listens and tries to understand my point.

He brushes it off or avoids the argument.

He shuts down or acts like he doesn’t care.

12. Do you feel like he's putting less effort into maintaining the relationship compared to before?

Not at all; he’s still as committed as ever.

Yes, he seems to be doing the bare minimum.

A little, but it’s not a major issue yet.

Completely, I feel like I’m the only one trying now.

13. How has his behavior changed when it comes to physical intimacy or closeness?

Nothing has changed; he’s still loving and affectionate

He avoids any form of intimacy altogether

He seems uninterested in physical or emotional closeness

He’s slightly less physical but still shows the same level of affection.

14. How does he handle moments when you're feeling vulnerable or upset?

He comforts and supports me.

He seems indifferent and avoids engaging.

He gets frustrated and distances himself.

He acknowledges my feelings and tries to support me.

15. How often does he do small gestures or acts of kindness to show he cares?

Frequently, he always finds ways to make me feel special.

Rarely do I have to ask for his attention or affection.

Everytime whenever he sees me upset.

Never; he doesn’t seem to care about gestures anymore.