Am I Unlovable? Quiz

1. I am authentic in my most intimate relationships; I am not leading a "double life."

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2. I get to hear 'I love you.'

Much of the time

Almost always

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3. I am inherently trusting and trustworthy in my relationships.

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4. I respond to feedback with an openness to improve and without accepting another's perspective as unquestionably accurate.

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5. I enjoy intimacy without limiting inhibitions.

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6. I am comfortable giving and receiving affection.

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7. I am in tune with and accepting of my biological appetites and needs.

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8. I do not see harbor disappointments, grievances, or regrets.

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9. I can effectively communicate my needs to those in my life.

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10. Even when facing significant challenges, I trust I will weather the storm and be okay.

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11. I recognize and acknowledge my unique talents and am at ease in expressing them.

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12. I can handle rejection without questioning my core worthiness.

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13. I am comfortable with my body image.

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14. I trust my intuitive inner voice, even when others attempt to discourage me.

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15. I have peaceful relationships with my parents, siblings, and family members.

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16. I am able to set healthy boundaries with the people in my life.

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17. I am comfortable spending time alone without feeling lonely.

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18. I care for myself through healthy choices that reflect my intrinsic self-worth.

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Much of the time

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