From Doormat To Dreamgirl Personality Test

1. I have dated guys before that weren't worth the effort, so I

Watched it for a while but then I kicked him to the curb, said sorry and moved on

Hung around to see if he'd change or whether he'd end up appreciating me a little more if I gave him more love and affection

I don't put up with bullshit at all. If he's not worth it, I move on quickly

I demanded more effort from him but he shortly after called it off

2. Your longest romantic relationship lasted?

Less than 6 months or I don't believe in relationships

6-12 Months

1-3 Years

+3 Years

3. I have been told by guys before that

Men like me, I am Girlfriend or Wife material

Men like me, they see me like a best friend or sister as I am easy to get along with

Men love me and the word Sex Goddess has been mentioned

Not sure, but maybe good sex, or fun to be with

4. Values, Do you know yours?

Yes, I have a list and live by them religiously

I somewhat know my values but it's trial and error when I apply them

I have some but never really thought about it

What are values?

5. I know what men want so I get what I want

All men are the same and want the same - Sex

No clue, it seems they don't know either

Yes, I guess they are just people and want love, affection and attention

Yes, they want me to bat my eyelashes at them adoringly

6. When I think about men, I think they

They like me

They think I am good in bed

They say I am a flirt

They say I am a good girl

7. When I grew up it was important to

Be a good girl and invest in people liking me

To equal to men and hold my own

To be daddy's darling

It didn't matter as it was all hard work and pleasing everyone

8. Guys generally keep contact with me regularly when we date

Always, they can't seem to stop chatting with me

They check in every now and then, especially to set up dates

I only really hear from them when they have some time and often only on short notice

No, I generally keep contact with them

9. Guys generally show off to me

It's like a zoo full of gorillas beating their chests

They do tell me about their conquests and often tell me how cool they are

Sometimes they will tell me something and it may be showing off

No, they generally talk to me about their exes, their work and other stuff

10. Guys tease me and are funny around me

All the time! They play pranks, pull my hair, pinch my butt or say really mean but funny things

Sometimes they make sarcastic remarks or tell me off for something

I don't like being teased so they learn to stop that very quickly

No, guys never tease me. They must know I am a lady

11. Dreams, wishes and goals?

I can name 5 without hesitation

I have a few but they change

My dreams never come true so I don't bother

My life manifests spontaneously

12. When a man comes over to talk to me, I

Cringe and try and hide somewhere

Amused that he made the effort... The fool

Tell him to bugger off. What was he thinking!

Introduce myself and if with people, introduce them as well and start a conversation

13. Important decisions are easy for me to make

Yes, I often make tough calls and am very decisive

When I have to make decisions I will, otherwise I am happy to let someone else decide

Decisions are generally made without my inputs and I go along with it

No, I hate making decisions, I'd rather someone else makes them

14. I am a Dreamgirl because

I was born one and all my life it's been like that

I became one by changing some useless behaviours and trusting myself more

Someone once said a nice thing about me, I have talent, nice hair, beautiful eyes

I am not. Nothing ever goes my way and it's time to change that!

15. Your current relationship status?

Happily Single

Happily in a relationship

Unhappily single or it's complicated

Unhappy in a relationship

16. I am always available for my partner, family or friends

Yes, I cancel appointments if my partner or family and friends want me to do something else.

I am available but will discern what's important and what can wait

No, I keep to my appointments as I come first and others can wait

My partner and/or family and friends know they can rely on me but they also know that I have my own life and things to do.

17. I generally prefer doing things with my partner

Yes, I prefer activities with my partner. I am a little unhappy when we can't do everything together

I love doing things with my partner but I also have other interests that keep me busy.

I only do things with my partner and let him decide what things we do next!

I prefer just cuddling on the couch and watch a movie with my partner. I am okay that he doesn't include me in his activities.

18. I am or have been always scared to be hurt again

Yes, I live in constant fear of being hurt or left behind

I occasionally get my knickers in knots and start worrying. A good night out with the girls fixes that!

No, I am prepared to pay the price if this doesn't work out. Pain eventually goes away.

Occasionally I get scared and then I do things that drive my partner further away. I eventually stop but the fear remains.

19. In company of a potential or new date I feel

Mostly bored as they keep talking about themselves all the time

Curious about them but exhausted from the effort it takes to date strangers

Excited at the rapport we have going and the potential fun we'll have

Amused and entertained to see if he's the one to have some fun with and work out whether he is long term potential

20. When people I know or love , especially men, behave badly I

Make excuses for his bad behaviour. Anyone can have a bad day now and then

Stay calm and create some space by removing myself from the situation and address it later

I tell him there and then how his behaviour is affecting me and then walk away

I try and find out what's wrong with him and see if I can help him to be a better person