Choose one answer per question. If more than one answer applies, choose the one that is closest to what is true for you. Be completely honest in order to produce the most accurate results.
Wherever they are at the moment, but the connection should be stronger than ever
Engaged, or planning their lives together
About ready to move on
Still dedicated to each other completely, despite all of the ups and downs
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My need for peace, stability, and safety
My ideals, my career and/or my need to satisfy my immediate desires
My need to know they will never abandon me
My belief in our connection and my efforts to maintain that connection
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It is promised to last "forever"
I feel completely at ease and understood by my partner
I'm not sure what real love is
I feel like I would die without the other person
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I didn't connect with effortlessly and completely
Wasn't my "type," or couldn't help me in my career
Didn't share my core values and goals
Didn't invoke intense and passionate feelings that make me think I couldn't live without them
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Their appearance and/or status
A high level of reliability, considerateness, and kindness
Effortless connection and complete reciprocity of feelings
Whether we have an intense passionate attraction
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Not care, they rarely approve of anybody I date
Care but know that their dissaproval is only because my partner doesn't fit their idea of who I should be with but once they see how connected we are they will change their minds
Care deeply, I would never date someone my family didn't approve of
Care a little but I know that the relationship isn't going to last forever so it doesn't concern me too much
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Effortless connection
Intense passion
Long-Term Compatibility
Short-Term satisfaction
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Be exactly like I always pictured my perfect lover to be
Share my core values and goals
Make me the center of their lives, and wouldn't be able to live without me
Understand and know my innermost self
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Feeling completely connected to someone else
Being with my ideal partner
Having a stable peaceful home life
Complete entwinement with another
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Not realistic
Something to strive for, but a deep connection has value no matter how long it lasts
Something I believe in strongly, and anything less is not "the real thing"
Difficult to achieve because relationships are so tumultuous
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