What Kind Of Bender Are You?

1. In any activity, what kind of attitude makes it much more enjoyable.

A competitive atmosphere. I find myself enjoying things more if everyone is heated up over something.

A calm surrounding. Drinking a cup of coffee with friends on a nice day, that sort of thing.

A laid back attitude. I have more fun if I'm just chilling with my friends.

An adventurous aura. I like to feel excited about the stuff I'm doing especially if everyone else is.

2. What is a strong trait you see in yourself that will most likely lead to your future happiness or success.

Grit - I am driven and courageous which helps me endure through life's challenges.

Ambition - I am eager for success and I aim to accomplish my goals.

Buoyant - I am able to stay on top of things and keep my spirit high despite the struggles.

Versatile - I am carefree and don't take life to seriously. I can adapt to life's sudden turns and flow with it.

3. You believe the best decision is -?

One that is set in stone.

One that can be easily changed.

One with the least consequences.

One with the biggest effect.

4. What kind of person do you find most admirable?

An accomplished person. Someone who is passion-driven and successful.

An experienced person. Someone who's been through a lot and has the wisdom of experience.

A skilled person. Someone who has mastered my favorite past-time.

An intuitive person. Someone who seems to be all-knowing.

5. When planning, you-?

Plan little and rely on your improvisation skills.

Plan broadly, allowing the smaller parts to take their own course.

Plan concisely and include even the small details.

You allow others to make the plan but usually prefer to move freely and independently

6. However when it comes to conflict, your biggest flaw is that you are -

Overly aggressive. My emotions get the better of me and others tend to get hurt.

Too stubborn. Sometimes it's difficult to admit my faults or to forgive.

Non-confrontational. I'll avoid the conflict, unfortunately irritating others.

Repressive. I'll feign resolution but there would still be residual feelings left behind prolonging the conflict.

7. The best way to handle conflict is to be -?

Confrontational and rational. It is important to release any tension, but to keep level-headed simultaneously.

Understanding and Patient. It is important to let out your emotions as long as you listen to the others.

Firm and Triumphant. It is important to stay true to your values even if that means someone else losing.

Fair and forthcoming. It is important to listen to both sides issues but still meet in the middle.

8. Which holds truest to your physical description?

Lightweight and a little on the bony side.

Broad and stocky. Big hands and feet.

Tall stature and physically fit.

Kinda pudgy but flexible.

9. It's Christmas time and each of your friends are doing different activities. Which friend would you most likely follow?

The one who's inside drinking hot chocolate next to the toasty fire.

The one who's outside playing in the snow and challenging people to snowball fights.

The one who's inside setting up the Christmas tree.

The one who's outside sliding down slopes in a sleigh.